Question 1

Will the Captain Officiate the Ceremony?

Accepted Answer

In most cases, no.  The captain's role is to maintain the safe navigation of the vessel (often keeping the boat steady during the ceremony) but he or she will help you with the scattering and other matters while on board.  See next question, Who Officiates the Ceremony?

Question 2

Should I Tip the Captain?

Accepted Answer

Generally a tip to the captain is customary but not required, however if there is a mate on board you should offer them a tip.  A good tip is $50.00 to one mate, if there are two mates $20 each is recommended.  If you're hosting a large group (more than 15) it is good to ask your captain.

Question 3

What Kind of Boat Will I Be On?

Accepted Answer

The standard type of vessel used for burial at sea is a commercial sight-seeing, fishing, or scuba diving boat.  This is because they are Coast Guard inspected for safety and generally affordable.  Larger vessels equipped for catering events such as weddings and other celebrations typically don't go out into the ocean because they are slow and burn a lot of fuel.  That said there are beautiful smaller yachts available, but you should expect to pay more.

Question 4

Do I Need a Special Permit or Report With the EPA?

Accepted Answer

The only state that requires a permit is California and not in all counties.  Reporting with the EPA must be done in 30 days which is taken care of by our team with any of our services.  Read more in our blog - Scattering Ashes and Reporting to the EPA.

Question 5

What if I get seasick on a memorial at sea?

Accepted Answer

Sea sickness or motion sickness can affect anyone.  There are preventative measures one can take, such as keeping your eye on the horizon.  Check out our blog on sea sickness for helpful hints.

Question 6

What if I want to prearrange my memorial service or have my ashes scattered somewhere after I pass?

Accepted Answer

We can assist with this process, and it will involve adding instructions to your will.  There's always stories of people who wanted to be cremated and have their ashes spread, but the process was never seen through.  The events following death are very important and we believe every person should be laid to rest in their desired location.  Even if you do not use our services we strongly encourage you to include what you wish to be done with your body in your will.

Question 7

How much do competitors charge for similar services?

Accepted Answer

Standard funeral, burial with ceremony: $8,500 average

Scattering by Air: $600-$1,400

Deep Sea Coral Reefs: $2,995-$7,495

Balloon Scattering: $6,000-$12,500

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